FROM SUFFERING TO JOY.
​ENLIGHTENED ​ESTRANGEMENT.

Estrangement from your child is painful. Suffering is optional. There is a path.
Ancient. Wise. Tried & True

MEET TROY DILLARD, ​MD
DECHEN JINPA)

Welcome, I'm Troy Dillard, MD. Sometimes I sometimes prefer to use my spiritual name, or "Dharma name", Dechen Jinpa. I am a Certified Life Coach, Certified Estranged Parent Healing Psychology Practitioner, Certified Spiritual Life Coach, physician, father, and Buddhist practitioner for over 35 years. I am also a parent who is estranged from his adult child.  I have come through estrangement and, on the other side of the initial suffering, I have achieved wisdom, peace, wholeness and even Joy.  My mission is to help you on your journey from suffering to joy. Reach out today and let's get to know each other. Wishing you blessings, healing, and new-found joy, Dechen.
Internationally Accredited

Estranged Parent HeaLing Psychology
Practitioner​

Awarded To Troy Harris Dillard
For Completing the Comprehensive Humanistic Social Psychology program studying human
emotions, estrangement, strategic communication, rules of reconciliation, global family
​parenting, statistics, the new nuclear family & the influence of technology.

My Approach

I combine traditional life coaching with Buddhist principles (which can be applied regardless of your religion), mindfulness meditation, and a physician's heartfelt caring to guide you through the rough seas of estrangement to the calm waters of well-being and the joy that is your true nature and birthright.

​My Services

I offer a range of coaching services, including one-on-one coaching sessions. I also offer "Letter/E-mail" reviews to give you feedback on letters or emails to your estranged child. Let me look at it before your hit send! Look for upcoming group coaching, workshops, and retreats. Contact me today to schedule a free consultation to see if working together makes sense for you

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